下坡容易上坡難


最近追了非獸性男女。

在第五集裡有一段時劇情是女主角在深刻明白在那個時間點上,她無法解決現任男友的前女友還住在男友家的事實。

她開始把注意力轉移到工作上,面對老闆的任何要求與不斷增加的工作量,她一律是帶著一貫的笑容說我明白了我會處理。她不斷的低哼著一首歌的旋律,把自己的工作節奏調整到最快速運轉,不想讓腦袋停下來,不想去面對她無法解決卻又傷透了心的問題。

我突然很懂那個心情。

蜜月期過後就是排山倒海而來壓力。

團隊重新整理,我跛著腳跑著追趕進度。

老闆指著你的鼻子罵你是那種䓤?我說一你不准說二

有人在人前摸著你的頭,在人後又捅了你一刀有人把你當空氣,你說什麼他都有意見。

有人把你當成練肖話的好對象,你笑著聽著他的謊言心裡覺得幽默

每天都有人在說你不夠好,你憑什麼在這?內心崩潰過無數次,於是開始懷疑自己。


The Post 

 “Kay is in a position she never thought she’d be in — a position I’m sure plenty of people don’t think she should have. And when you’re told time and time again that you’re not good enough, that your opinion doesn’t matter as much — when they don’t just look past you, when to them you’re not even there, when that’s been your reality for so long — it’s hard not to let yourself think it’s true.”
“So to make this decision, to risk her fortune and the company that’s been her entire life? Well, I think that’s brave,” she concludes. And Bradlee seems to realize she’s right. That this scene serves as a potent reminder of the workplace dynamics many women experience all these years later is troubling, but it’s also fitting for a year that has been defined by women who’ve had enough of tilted power dynamics that enable everything from cordial misogyny to sexual predation.