2011-7-29 Lohos Notes from Mentor Nina Feng

Mindset Evolution
-Follow work to survive (compromise work to stay)
-Explore work to win ( initiate work to perform )
-Propel work to contribute (appreciate work to coach)
-Work to refresh recharge re-energize (work to leave a legacy )

Communication / Career, Life Plan
Never describe a story, but need to learn to speak out your own point of view under a full understanding of the whole story/case.
Everyone has their own value, accept it without marking them on a reject list and then you'd succeed in achieving 50%.
To find a good mentor is very important in workplace and learn from him/her, the power of a good mentor not only influence your work attitude but also your thinking toward life.
If don't understand just say you don't, Do not pretend you get it.
Self awareness and conscience
Starts with language - English and then writing and know the content by fully understanding what question the requester is asking.
贏在起跑點 - Nina's past experience: when work overseas by beginning by studying ones culture, profile. Concentrate on ppl's need and thoughts and then point out the company's final goal and summarize it.
Plan - Career Plan, Life Plan - learn to REJECT the things/result that you don't want.
老身 老友 老伴 老本 what I want, what I need, what I should? 生活重心 - Be honest to yourself and know yourself
What's your vision, your objective?
Never lose your curiosity and you will have passion and have action
Have compassion 將心比心
時間是公平的 善用我們平等的資產 How to manage time? 預先計畫要如何利用這些時間
學習結緣 而不是結怨 學謙虛 基本功打穩打好
Work to survive/ to stay/ to win/ to perform/ to contribute/ to coach/ to refresh, recharge, re-energize/ leave a legacy?
重點是 "嫁個好老公"
對小孩家庭: 重值不重量 by Nina's view
Use Facebook is wasting time

雷達

頻率不對

所以不通

安靜的透視你的心

是一個我到不了的世界


End Of Message

凡事,都要盡力;結果,交給老天。

should be

每個人都拼了命在追尋自己夢寐以求的人生,只是會不會到了踏進棺​材的那天才發現目標設得太遠大,一輩子都達不到,這一生原來都只​是追著虛幻的漂浮在高空裡的夢想泡泡,跑得自己氣喘吁吁?
我只想平凡地過日子:做一份我能勝任又可以獲得成就感的工作,得​意的時候有朋友跟我分享喜悅,不如意的時候有朋友聽我幹譙抱怨,​想去旅行就去旅行,想吃大餐就吃大餐,有點小錢足以做些讓自己開​心的事。這樣就夠了。

我是如此愛你

眼前的喧譁變成一場默劇
圍繞著我轉圈圈
我無法看你的眼睛
再也不能

我一定要過的很好很好很好
不要受傷
不要生病
每天大笑

[輕旅行]日月潭

和士商幫的固定班底來了一趟輕旅行。
沒想到我的好朋友也來湊熱鬧,讓我胃口全失,痛到直不起腰==|||
第二天晚上我們要從水社碼頭開車回民宿,短短的路程,一群老人在車上聽超級老歌“限時專送” 唱得不亦樂乎,音樂放的大聲,微風吹來,老友的笑聲,車子在無人的山路上疾駛,是這趟旅程最美麗的一幕。

(4)第二次看牙週病

牙週醫生是個年輕看得出愛打扮的女醫生,有時用威脅,有時用鼓勵的方式。尤其是洗牙洗得滿口血時,就會一直說辛苦囉什麼什麼的。煩不煩啊。

還在觀察牙週病,有一點失去耐心。

決定不在這裡洗貴森森的牙,自己去家裡附近的診所洗就好。